the eugene bean

There are women in my life who have shaped my very existence and to them I am forever thankful. Here's a small tribute:

Happy Birthday Gram! How wonderful it is to have my 2 grandmothers here on this planet?!? Although they are both far away, one in New Orleans and one in Houston, I am never in doubt of their support. Throughout my life when difficult decisions have arrisen, I knew I could count on both Mema and Gram to cheer me on. They are wise and loving and I am grateful.

My mom is a true example of someone who appreciates the life that she is living. Regardless of the path that she is currently following, she believes in herself and works hard to make her life successful. She loves my children with abandon, and that makes me feel so, so good.

My sister is just the rockin'est. I admit to taking her for granted, but it's hard not to do that because she is always there. She is one of the happiest facts of my life, and I count on her daily phone calls to refresh and renew me.

My friend Lisa is amazing. She is the big sister I never had, smart and honest and open without being condesending or controlling. She loves me for exactly who I am, and holds my hand as I struggle with my problems and shortcomings. She believes in me.

And then there's Wendy. Wendy is the friend I never thought I could have. I am open with her in a "this should not be leaving my mouth but I can't hold it in" kind of way. She hears me, and then really listens to me, and then responds with her thoughts- never trite advice. She is one of the only people I can count on to be honest with me, to tell me the truth even when it burns like hell.

I love you!